Skills of a Participant Observer
Learning the Language - learning to speak and understand the language of the people studied; learn insider phrases; people will begin to elevate their level of discourse with you
Building explicit awareness - awareness of the little, often taken for granted, details of life
Building Memory - building one's ability to remember things that happen or are observed in the field. Practice as well as developing a method for jotting notes can help with this.
Maintaining Naivete - trying to maintain a position of inexperienced member of a social setting or culture. Developing this position of 'novice' is particularly difficult when one studies a familiar culture.
Building writing skills - developing the ability to write comfortably and clearly
Reference
Bernard, HR. (1988). Research Methods in Cultural Anthropology. (pp 152-160). Newbury Park, CA: Sage Publications.